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November 4, 2008



This is just a reminder that this is an adult site, and is not intended for viewing by persons under the age of 18. Some of the subject matter can be intense and a little scary for some. The subject matter is adult spanking and domestic discipline. It will also contain pictures that may be disturbing to some.

Not much going on!

July 22, 2009

Sorry I haven’t been writing for a while, but honestly my life has become very “vanilla” lately! Not much to put on this blog…hopefully that will change soon! I bought a 3 year membership to a gym recently and so far so good. It’s very close to home, so I should be going often. So far, it’s been about 4 times a week. :-)

I figured out what my problem is!

January 28, 2009

I’m depressed in the winter. And, I have allergies. No amount of attention from MC seems to help.

Here’s what I did: I lit up my apartment. I got 2 natural light floor lamps and this thing


It’s called a light box. It is about 12 inches high, and it sits on my desk. It emits negative ion’s 24 hours a day, which reduces allergens. The light just stays off, except for 30-60 minutes a day when I do my “light therapy”.  I just sit in front of it, and read or work on the computer and after the prescribed amount of time, it shuts off. That’s all. My appetite is diminished, which is great, and my energy seems to be up. I’ve been sleeping better at night, and I have more energy during the day. I’ve already re-organized 2 closets and I’m getting ready to start a container garden on my balcony.

No spanking for now, folks. MC has been busy with his writing and his new publishing company. I’m not being totally neglected though – just nothing picture -and- story-worthy.

Holy Cow, it’s been a long time

January 5, 2009


This has been a crazy holiday season for me, visiting family and friends. I’m going to get back to writing (and playing!) very very soon!


I haven’t forgotten about the blog…

December 10, 2008

Things have just been busy around here, and not much spanking going on!

Hopefully, Monday, MC and I will have some playtime.

Regarding my diet: I’ve done “ok” – we are eating healthy foods – oats, beans, etc. We might be eating a little too much, though. We also went out to eat a few times (I think I had a hamburger a couple of times!) which is a no-no for almost any diet.  Exercise has gone by the wayside as the weather got colder. I actually like cold weather, so that’s not a good excuse.

Truth be told, we’ve been lazy. We’ve been watching movies, making christmas plans and doing what we darn well please! I’ve managed to keep up on the chores, but it’s an afterthought rather than something that I do on purpose.

DD was sick and home from school Monday and Tuesday, so my time was spent trying to get her well.  She’s feeling better and is back to school today.

Now  you see why I haven’t been writing. I really dont have much to write about – and I’m even boring myself at this point!

Feeling better

December 5, 2008

Ok, don’t read too much into that last post. I was having a hard time last night, and felt I was losing MC.  I feared I was going to lose him right when I’ve allowed myself to trust and love him most.  He assured me I was not, could not, and would not – but I could not be consoled.  I didn’t sleep well last night at all. Probably 2 hours, total and I woke up about a thousand times because of short nighmares.  I don’t think MC slept well, either. The light of day offered little comfort, and I was still in a bad way until about noon. Things have become more clear, and I am feeling better.

Funny thing is I wound up losing 1.8 pounds this week (I lost 3 pounds since yesterday!). Probably water weight from all the crying…  It’s a good thing that MC is strong- willed and not easily run off.  

As a result of my panic attack (that’s all I can call it, really) MC and I didn’t have our schedule playtime today.  Our next opportunity will be in about 10 days… *sigh*.   We watched “How the grinch stole christmas” and “kiss me kate” this afternoon. Both light, and easily digested.

Tomorrow will be a “chore” day, so that we can have a family day on Sunday.  It’s nice to have a weekend when we can all be together. 

It’s days like today that I could really use some hard play- punishment even. I know MC  forgives me for losing it, but I don’t know how to forgive myself, sometimes.

Tomorrow is a new day, and a new start. I’m so fortunate to be married to  a man who loves me, with all of my faults and crazy-making. I definately keep it to a minimum, and I’m sure he’s grateful for that.  I am not  a drama queen – and I run from drama. It’s just right now I’m basically a housewife, and no one ever told me how scary that can be – to be totally dependent on someone for support – not only now, but if they were to die…  Well, I have to not think about that right now. I just got over it my last “episode”.   lol  

Thank you MC, for being who you are.

Your’s forever, tigger

Either way, I lose

December 5, 2008

I don’t want to lose you, while I still love you

But how do I stop loving you, when you’re part of me?

My life as a hermit

December 2, 2008



This isn’t easy for me to admit, but I think I’m depressed. I’m sleeping most of the day away, and I’m not motivated to do much of anything. MC suggested that I leave for a walk each day after DD gets to school. I think it’s a good idea. Today I slept off and on almost all day until DD got home from school. I don’t like to do that. It’s a total waste of time, and of my life. I went to the grocery store with MC a couple of days ago, and I was looking at expiration dates, thinking things with a date of 11/01/09 were expired. I actually thought it was 2009! I’ve been inside, with my own thoughts, I’ve actually bored myself into thinking it’s a whole different year!

MC says that if I would just get outside, I would feel better.  He’s a wise man.  As it is, I’m staying indoors all day, and boring myself half to death. I make lists of things to accomplish, and don’t do them. I’ve even started looking for jobs – which is unnecessary and unproductive. I have a job, and one that I can do at home, at that! I just have to figure out how to motivate myself to actually do it.

Honestly, I think my life is just too good to keep my interest. Life has always been sort of difficult, but this year, it became very simple. DD is managing her own schedule and transportation to school. Our rent is lower, MC got a raise, we have enough money to cover our bills, we have good health insurance, and MC and I are back on track, in our love life. Nothing to complain about. Nothing to get too excited about.




I’m not doing awesome on my diet goals. But, tomorrow is a new day. Hopefully I can get away to take a walk. I’m still up a pound from last official weigh in. I have until Thursday morning to bring it down. I haven’t really eaten that poorly  – but my portions are sort of out whack. I think I ate 3 cups of raisin bran today.

To be tied…

Playtime and/or punishment (hoping for less of the later and more of the former) is still scheduled for this Friday. MC and I are going to try to attend a couple of munches this month, to connect with others with kinky interests. We might be able to fit a play party in, in January. December is just too full of holidays and chaos.